Why Do You Have a Foot Fetish?

Something interesting happens in my mind when I see a woman's feet during a sexual situation. With most individuals, it's just another body part, but for me, it activates a strong signal to be turned on by her even more. A woman's soles can make my brain think it's seeing something incredibly sexual, just as much as if it were seeing her genitals. That's the scientific way of looking at it, but a more basic answer would be feet are hot to me, just like you would describe a person as hot by the way their face looks. I'll do my best to explain exactly what I mean, but it's one of the most peculiar triggers that only a small percentage of people have.

The Definition Of Foot Fetish

It's called a fetish because it deviates from typical sexual attraction and engagement. From what I can tell, some use the word "fetish" when it involves anything outside of the penis, vagina, asshole, or mouth. I believe that anybody that admires feet outside of general appreciation has a foot fetish. Especially if they get turned on when they see them. I believe, as with any fetish, there is a spectrum that everyone falls on. On one end, some folks just admire pretty feet and can't appreciate when their partner takes good care of them. All the way on the other side, you have others who love to involve foot fetishes on an extreme level. Examples of this are things like tickling feet, having someone trample on them, smelling women's soles, foot licking, etc. Whatever the case, if you have a desire of this flavor, it means you get turned on by feet more easily than most.

The Origins Of My Fetish

I think, as with most sexual preferences, foot fetishes start at an early age. I don't recall a singular event that sparked my love of feet. It had to be something that was just a part of me since I was younger. My best theory is based around the culture of individuals having their shoes off when they are comfortable around someone. Feet are also something you don't see on a person until you are at home with them, so it creates a sense of peaceful security in my eyes. It also feels like it's something I'm not supposed to be looking at when I'm around a lady. It's kind of similar to how it riled guys up when a woman would show a little bit of shoulder in the late 1800s. The fact that it's just a little bit of naughtiness goes a long way with me.

There is a biological reason that I've heard from a doctor, which refers to a misfire that happens in the brain. Essentially, the part of the brain that registers the genitals is very close to the part that registers feet, legs, thighs, and ass. Sometimes when my brain sees feet, it has the same reaction that one might have when they see a vagina or cock (whichever you're into). This is probably why most men have an affinity for a woman's ass and vice versa. And of course, I'm into legs and thighs as well. When I imagine myself with a woman, the first thing I think about is me lying between her thighs. Something about that area makes me feel like I'm in the most comfortable place on earth.

Around my college years, I started to notice something peculiar about the porn that always turned me on. Subconsciously I had assembled a collection of photos and videos that all have one particular aspect about them. They all had the woman's feet in clear view. I've never really been into adult content that only shows a woman's feet and nothing else. For some reason that doesn't turn me on at all. Seeing something that I'm already attracted to, like a nice round ass or a beautiful face plus the aesthetic of her soles or toes in the same frame, makes it stimulation overload. That's the basic premise of pornographic material, but seeing feet alongside of it really does the job for me. It's more of a complementary thing than my main focus when I'm watching it.

I've witnessed that those with this obsession have favorite parts of the foot. Some like the toes or the arch, and there are even some ankle lovers. The bottoms or "soles" of female feet are what turn me on the most. I like how there's a clear separation of color between the soles and the rest of the foot. You can see this distinction, especially in Black women. If you had access to my search history over the years, the term "Ebony Soles" would come up a lot.

How I Implement Feet In My Porn 

I've attempted many times to implement foot fetish ideas in my work, but my affection for it is such a different energy compared to what you hear most about. I typically don't do a lot of scenes that only involve feet. I like to pair it with other things that I think are sexy. If the position is a handjob, I try to have the woman's feet close to the camera so you get a great view of both aspects. The same goes with hard-core sex positions. For instance, if I'm doing missionary, I try to keep the female performer's soles on my shoulders so you can see the bottom of her feet while she's getting penetrated. I try not to force the inclusion for the sake of not making an awkward scene. Anyone with a foot fascination can instantly tell if the creator of the content actually cares about feet. Some of my least popular content gets fewer views because I'm trying to create something that I'm not really into, and the foot community can sense that. So if I do involve this fetish in the scene, I try to only involve it in a way that gets me turned on. One major example is how I love it when a girl's feet is directly touching me during the action. For example, sometimes in missionary, I'll have the girl place the bottom of her feet on my chest. It's honestly the quickest way for me to get the hardest erections of my life.

Does Everyone's Feet Turn You On?

Someone's feet can only turn me on if I'm already attracted to them in other ways. This means I don't get turned on by every foot I see. I also don't feel anything when I see a man's feet. My passion for it is similar to how all sexual attractiveness works. If you think big asses are hot, that doesn't mean you're getting turned on by every big ass you see. I guess I can't speak for everyone on that; I would just assume that that's the case.

Do You Like To Be Dominated With Feet?

If you were to do a web search on the phrase "foot fetish porn," you would see it's accompanied by terms like "domination" and "humiliation." Those kinds of expressions never resonated with me. I don't find any kind of excitement in being submissive in the bedroom, so it would be a complete turn-off, personally. What gets my gears turning is the thought of touching, feeling, or even seeing feet in a sexual manner. Anything more intense than that comes with a risk of me losing my boner.

My Thoughts On Having A Foot Fetish

I used to think that my fetish was something to be ashamed of because of how many people make fun of those with a love for feet. The jokes mainly come from what you see in movies regarding those with foot fetishism. Usually it's a guy doing inappropriate things like trying to take foot photos of an unaware person. I've never been that kind of a guy who would do something disgusting like that. Hearing things like that from others made me suppress what I like sexually for years. However, I think as long as you're respectful to others, there is no sexual preference or hobby that should be shameful. That doesn't include acts that will be harmful in any way to anyone. If something gets you turned on, you should always be honest with your partner about what you like. Who knows? They may even be into it!